Setting Yourself Free
If you're not drinking your hot tea while it's hot...
If you're holding your pee until you're quite uncomfortable...
If you're hungry, but you're pushing through one more email or one more report or one more sales page or one more anything and not taking the time to eat...
If you're uncomfortable, but you won't draw attention to yourself by asking him to turn down the volume on the TV or turn up the A/C or dismiss yourself from the conversation...
If your heart is ripping on the inside, but your voice will not let it be know
You've developed a pattern of giving up your power
.... because when you're sacrificing your pleasure, you're sacrificing your power
You might as well place your head and heart on the chopping block
You might as well hold your hands together for someone to bind
You might as well hold your head still for someone to tie a gag around your mouth
Okay, those last three statements might sound like an over exaggeration, but the extent to which you sacrifice your pleasure for someone else's happiness or comfort or the status quo of your dynamics, is the extent to which you are sacrificing your power
Your power to create the freedom, joy, and happiness you've been longing for, but have long since given up
Forfeiting pleasure will keep you shackled to playing the martyr and martyrdom will continue to keep you in a disempowered state
What's the remedy?
Pleasure
It's the fastest track I've experienced so far to healing + transformation
To ending my former relationship with relinquishing my joy, power + prosperity
To setting myself free and therefore, setting my children free